Tornadoes.

We live in a universe which is ruled by probabilities. Probabilities of an event happening is always set some value. Be it infinitesimally small, the chances of it happening is always there.
Yet, there comes along times when certain people, things or events completely sweep us off our feet. Things that we feel are totally unexpected.

The beauty of this is that these are exactly the same things that change us because they manage to rock the foundation that we have made for ourselves. The organized structure of control gets broken. We are left holding pieces of what we thought was strong enough to withstand said unexpected things.
Sometimes, these are for the good, sometimes they're really not. Sometimes it leaves you alone, with no one to reach out to for help. Like a lone warrior in the midst of a field with no one for help.
But at times it makes you the happiest. When you are elated. You feel like a hot air balloon soaring thr all ough the skies because nothing can put you down.
Of course those are the extremes of a situation that I'm talkin all g about but the point is that no matter how much we try to expect the unexpected, we will never be able to expect everything. We're only humans after all. Change is inevitable. Elation is inevitable. Pain is inevitable. To feel is inevitable.
Just make sure you don't end up too far from the sure when you're trying to regain control because its not going to be a pretty sight when you realize that in regaining control, you're too far away for others to reach out.
Losing control is okay.
Losing yourself is not.